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Ignored and neglected parents seem to think that their adult kid just woke up one day and decided they didn't want to have their parents in their lives anymore. It's a process that happened through the years of upbringing. They are most likely doing what they believe they need to do to survive. Well, I hope that you never have cause to be a "whiny" parent some day; but maybe only then you will get it. While I'm not sure my children will be open for a discussion, your post strqngers provided some strangeers to what my boys might be experiencing.

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